What do you want to see when you look back at your own life?

Within 3 minutes on the news last week, I listened to a review of Eunice Shriver's extraordinary contributions and service to our country - and an announcement that Michael Vick was hired by the Philadelphia Eagles.

The contrast was stunning - I was so inspired listening to all that Eunice Shriver had done; then I wondered how many people will attend Philadelphia Eagles games and, at the same time, try to tell us how much they love dogs.

I was struck by the dramatic difference of how two individuals made such dramatically different choices about how they chose to live their lives. Some might say there is no comparison because Eunice was born into a family of wealth and privilege. However, we all know individuals who came from poverty and built a life of contribution and positive legacy. We also know of people who enjoy wealth and privilege who squander their opportunities in the pursuit of meaningless, hedonistic activities.

When I was in my early 20’s, I remember vividly taking a walk outside of a class I was taking and thinking about how I wanted to view my life when I was in my 80’s. I was trying to make some serious life decisions at that time and I thought asking that question of myself might lead to the right solution.

Now, at 68, I periodically look back at my own life my life and review some of the decisions I have made and some of the decisions I have to make now and going forward. When I was young, I made more than my share of stupid mistakes; but I am pleased that I was consistent about building a career around my genuine passion and commitment to making a positive difference and urge each of you to do the same.

No one makes perfect decisions, but I want to share this with you so you can think about the choices you are making; because, I assure you that 20 years goes by in two blinks - so the choices you make about every minute you spend and the decisions you make each day will define your life - and, like Eunice Shriver and Michael Vick - you can chose to make positive choices with positive results or leave a legacy of harm/ destruction and everything in between.

Eunice Shriver stands as an inspiring role model who made a choice to make a difference. She could have easily spent her time at the country club, shopping, plastic surgeons and a myriad of hedonistic activities. But she clearly chose to focus her time, resources and energy on contributing to a segment of society worthy of everyone’s support, but often ignored at best, discriminated against at worst - to make a difference.

As an animal lover, I am horrified that Michael Vick would be rewarded in any way for a life of drowning, killing, unspeakable acts of abuse towards dogs. As I listen to so many commentators say that he deserves a second chance, I realize how far away we are from our commitment to treating animals with the love and respect they deserve. Michael Vick gave no dog a second chance. If he murdered humans, he would still be in prison.

Isn’t ironic that we have people who smoke marijuana in prison - but Michael Vick whose crimes against dogs are disgusting and unforgivable is out making millions for some totally insensitive NFL team that cares more about money than his crimes against these poor animals.

I hope every Philadelphia fan boycotts the games - but I am not too optimistic this will happen.

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